Tuesday, October 6, 2020

Recently split from my GF new man already is moving in what should I do?


So she had an emotional attachment for the passed year with this guy and thinks they are soulmates. I have known her for 12 years and have seen her say this a lot. I don't know what to do. I am really uncomfortable with my daughter being around a man that my ex has only known for a year at work. I feel like that is not enough time to introduce the kidsKeeping her from her mom just because im over protective is clearly wrong, right?I am going to meet him tomorrow and im nervous. I don't like the idea of my daughter living with a man my ex gf only knew from working for year...What can I or should I do about this?I have had my daughter for about 7 days since it's happened. Tomorrow she is going to moms and is going to be around the new guy.Im trying to be cordial but its making my skin crawl knowing that my daughter is going to be around a man my ex GF barely knows.I know taking her from her mom would be bad for her and I just want what's best for all of us. But can't help to feel sick about the situation.I understand why he is moving in because without him or me living there she can't afford the place/bills which means if she wants to see her daughter its gotta be in this house where the new guy is... What would you all do? Ik taking the child away from mom because I don't know this guy is wrong, right?Let me also add before I look crazy that I have been the one home with my daughter and my ex's son almost every single day since she was born. I have basically been a stay at home dad. My daughter gave me a reason to grow up and a reason to live and I just want her to be safe.Sorry this is so scattered, it is weighing on my mind verrrrry heavily. via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/3nogC4i

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