I feel crushed

So tonight ended like most have lately, my daughter (13) didn't want to give me a hug and kiss goodnight, because we had a spat followed by a talking to.A short back story. Her mom screwed up and CPS took her from her mother and awarded her to me. There was massive emotional and physical trauma. The problem now though, is it feels like myself and her step-family (mom and brother) are getting all the anger and hatred thrown at us. We have given her the world compared to how she had it.This is the second time she has made me feel this way. Last time she thought I would actually hit her, I left the house and let out my feelings, alone in my car.I just don't know how to help her see, that we aren't the bad guys. She already has a therapist, but due to Bio Mom abusing drugs, she is highly against taking meds. She believes she will grow up like her. via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/3a5xy9q