I don't have the best relationship with his parents. There's been a lot of drama and they have tried their best to walk all over me. I haven't had to deal with them much thanks to Covid. They're allowed to come over and visit him but they can't get close and we don't go anywhere. They don't take Covid seriously at all and they hardly come over because they don't get to see him the way they want. When his mother does visit she makes comments to my son how soon she is going to get him and he's going to spend the day with her. I understand her wanting this but I don't trust his parents at all, not because of how they have treated me. I don't trust them because of how they "take care" of their grandchildren. They're basically a second set of parents to their daughters kids. I've witnessed them letting the kids eat or drink whatever to the point they become ill and vomit. They don't keep an eye on them and they're constantly getting hurt. One of them is always spraining or breaking something. Apparently keeping your hands clean is something they didn't do back in their day. The kids are always sick when I see them. Don't even get me started on the racism, sexism, and homophobia that spews out my son's grandfathers mouth in front of the kids. The fact that the kids are always getting sick or hurt his parents chalk it up to kids being kids but I see it as them being neglectful and don't want my son alone with them until he's much older. Any advice on how to handle this situation? via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/2Mp1mXo
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