Am I asking too much of my daughter 18f

I have let my daughter do alot. Hang out with her boyfriend, all day, everyday, smoke weed, let her stay over the night, etc. Even after she lied to me about her smoking weed and hiding her boyfriend because she thought we were "strict. Anyways, all I ask from her is to go back to school for FIVE weeks. I pay for the school and think its good for her to go back. Two days in I get a text saying she never really liked the school and she was doing just fine remote and she should just stay remote and start fresh in September, which is true. She's always gotten straight A's during this time. However, I feel like she needs to learn a lesson that we can't always get what we want and she needs to owe me back something for all she has done. I think my request is more than reasonable and realistic. via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/3vsLiob