Sex after kids

I've been with my partner on and off for about six years or so. He was a pretty abusive in the beginning. But within the last year he's been better. (Don't worry it sounds crazy to me too, when I say all this. But I try to forgive him) Since the beginning of our relationship, he's been incredibly sexual. He wanted to have sex 5 times a day. And if I didn't keep up, I was called prude, selfish or just assaulted. Now, he's just as sexual, but has stepped it down from 5 times a day to once a day and doesn't assault me. The thing is, we have a two year old. When you have kids, you have less time for anything. I understand that. But he doesn't. The first 8 months of our kid's life, he never helped pay for anything and never spent time with either one of us. Currently, he sees our kid three days a week and leaves him with his mom two of the three days to hang out with me, unannounced. Saying I should be grateful for him because boyfriends don't do that.Everytime our kid turns their back he feels me up, asks me to touch him or locks him out of the room with his sister just to have sex/etc. Today, when he kicked him out of the room I told him he was wrong for doing that. It's not cool that he locks our son out just to get some. We have plenty of time to when he's in bed. Or we can make plans to get a sitter. His response was "We never have time. When we do you're tired or you don't want to. We always have him and you never want to keep him out of the room. You, him and my family so annoying for not helping me (get some)." It turned into an argument.It's not the first time he's said that he's in the way or a burden. Sometimes I feel like he just doesn't like him.What should I do in this situation? I feel like my son is my priority and I'm open to making more time for the two of us. I just don't want to lock my son out or do things with him in the room. via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/3nCAstd