Totally square

So, my husband and I are totally “straight edge.” We don’t smoke or drink. Our children are getting to the age that they notice that our friends/ family/ neighbors DO sometimes smoke and or drink. Recently my 8yo daughter asked me if it is bad that they drink / smoke and why don’t we? How do I explain that WE don’t agree with drinking and smoking without making our friends /family seem like bad people? I need the right words.To clarify, I really don’t care if others smoke and drink it’s just not for me or my husband. I’m not judging my friends and family other than maybe the health aspect. via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/3nGBFj3