Boundaries with grandparents

I’ve been on a journey creating boundaries with my parents and now I need to create them with them as grandparents. Has anyone experienced this?We’re parenting our baby very differently than how they parented us and so recently I’ve caught some comments that make me grind my teeth.1) were you good today? Did you behave good today? -or you can ask how their day was and how they’re doing…2) oh your parents don’t want to bring you to see us huh? You want to see us and they don’t want to huh? -or you can talk to us instead of being passive aggressive and using our baby to guilt trip us…3) I can’t even remember right now all the comments I hear.I have a long history of codependency and trauma so making boundaries has been a work in progress for me. via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/3xFVECb