Grandparents and our child..

Hey all,So.. we have our 6 month old. He is our first child. We try to take him to family as much as we can. Momma has had some bad back stuff going on so she tries to stay home till I get home from work.Both sides of the family has there own issues, her side of the family is mostly fine, just generational problems which we can handle. My side however... My parents, specifically my mother. Thinks she can do whatever she wants with him without asking us. And it makes us mad. We tell her not to feed him regular nonbaby food... What do we see everytime we go over and we turn our heads? She's feeding/letting him lick random sweets.Momma had a operation today and we let my mother watch him while we went to the hospital. We told her please don't take him anywhere, we don't feel comfortable yet. What does she do? Takes him places...I pick him up and we all got into a big family fit as I told them they need to respect our boundaries.I understand it's her first grandchild, and I know she does love him so much. But she wants to show him off, and they keep saying we've raised you and your brother just fine... But am I not wrong with they need to respect our boundaries as parents? Is this typical for first time grandparents? via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/3fZ9itM