Having your little one spend alone time with relatives

Idk if this is the appropriate group to post this. But Ok so I have a 1 year old and her grandparents on her dads side are always asking “when are we going to be able to have a sleepover with her alone” or “when can we have her for the day alone.” Is this normal or what cause my side of the family never asks these thing even thought they love her dearly and all but they’re not always pushing for things like that. Which then leads me to be on high alert like why are you so persistent on spending alone time with her. Is the time that I bring her over while I’m there not enough ? I’m just mainly worried about her being abused in anyway. Is it weird to think that? If not how can I politely say basically it’s NEVER going to happen. Her aunt on her dad side also mentions like omg when can I have her alone for the day. Like why?? I’m not overbearing when I’m there so why would you specifically want her alone ? There’s literally no reason why. Especially coming from her since she rarely sees her or asks about her when we don’t see each other at family gatherings. Also my littles one dad thinks there’s nothing wrong with the grandparents wanting to have her alone. Or sleep with her. Idk I’ve heard plenty of times from people who have been SA by their relatives. When I was younger my mom wouldn’t let me sleep over anyone’s house for this exact reason. So my question is how do I politely say no you cannot have time with her alone because I’m scared of the possibility you will abuse my child. via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/3gkf4GT