I’ve(F23) been a single mom since my daughter was 1. Got tired of BD’s (M25) cheating and overall nonsense and kicked him out one night and I’ve been so free honestly. So happy. Of course it’s hard parenting alone but it was such a good experience for my development as I had only been with him since I was in high school. Anyway, my daughter is 3 now and I’ve lost my job and I’ve been going through health challenges. Defaulted on rent, school fees, everything. Basically cash strapped like crazy.So my BD got a better job & asked to get back together and help me basically. Mentioned that I don’t have to struggle alone with LO and all that jazz that sounds good but I mean I don’t know really. So I agreed. Sitting in a beautiful new apartment with him & the kid. I just can’t exactly stand him. I wish I had a decent family support structure to lean on because I really don’t like him and I’m almost disgusted by him. But I was desperate and he offered me a way out. I am also not as frustrated because there is someone helping me with the child.Tl;dr I regret getting back together &moving in with my baby’s father but I don’t even have anywhere to go. I’m using him I guess but I just wanna be friends and I’m so grossed out by him. via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/3EpWOpx
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