My ex and I have a 1 yr old son. We are living separate and he comes to visit his son in my home whenever its convenient for him, for about 1-2 hours tops. He takes no responsibility, everything is on his terms, he makes no plans, just calls at random to come have a visit, no consistency, and barely any child support. I am starting to put my foot down and try to constructively make a schedule to have some stability for our son in the way of consistent visits etc and have also mentioned I would like to try mediation, as we have a very toxic relationship and are unable to communicate effectively. He is very mentally and emotionally abusive and I have a very hard time standing up to my boundaries when it comes to him.He has now threatened he is going to take me to court to get "50/50 custody" as he calls it, and move away out of province with our son and keep him 6 months out of the year. Does anyone have any experience with this? Im not sure how he figures he has the ability to do this, as he has never even taken him on his own for an entire day. He is extremely manipulative and intimidating and I have the tendency to doubt myself due to gaslighting to the fullest extent.Is he able to move back home to where he is from, out of Province and take him during his parenting time? Does anyone have any advice for me? Thank you. via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/3kKiVxi
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