So my kids haven't always gotten along but when it comes to my children. I've always held the idea that my youngest child is a bit of a liar. He used to lie on his sister alot and complain simply because she didn't want to hang out with him. I would always tell him that he shouldn't bug his sister all the time and when she retaliated like, hitting him with a pillow or pushing him out of her room. I didn't see that as a bad thing. This kinda behavior went on for years and my youngest son started becoming more of a recluse. And would often stop eating due to him feeling bad some days. I sometimes had to force him to eat some nights. Eventually I asked him why he was acting like this and he told me because I let his sister abuse him for years and I did nothing. When I asked him what he meant he went on and on about how for years he tried to do something anything with his sister but she would just push him away. Not only that but she would lie about him all the time for going into her room, stealing from me, and I always believed her because she was the oldest. HE SCREAMED HOW MUCH HE HATED HER. I decided to call my daughter and ask her about this. Honestly the conversation made it seem like my son was right. She was completely unsympathetic to the situation and when I asked her if she ever lied on her brother she said "Well a few times in highschool but just to mess with him" this pretty much confirmed it for me. I dont know what to do here. Is my son overreacting or could this be much worse? via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/3coHqi0
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