My husband is the guy who just forgets to help out. I always ask when I need his help but sometimes I don’t notice I’m burned out until it’s too late and I’m suddenly feeling rage from realizing I just did all the childcare for the day while he had a day off. It’s really my fault because I didn’t say anything earlier and now it doesn’t even matter because the kid is asleep. But I’m so annoyed with him I can’t even bare to be in the same room as him. I already sent him a text to tell him I’m upset he didn’t help out so we already “talked”. He gets the picture because we have been through this several times before, enough that I know I don’t have to have a discussion with him. He will get back into his fatherly duties within a day or two, when he isn’t obsessing about football.I was so eagerly looking for a chance to work out today and I was looking forward to doing it after my kid was asleep but I’m so mad I can’t even get out of my kid’s bed after she has fallen asleep. (I read to her until she’s asleep). I’m just sitting here waiting for the anger to subside. I’m tired of being angry. Sometimes I hate my husband’s face, the way he looks so bored and complacent. I would kill to be bored but I don’t have time. I know he’s going through stuff, like he’s insecure about his psoriasis and he’s flaring up now but that doesn’t give him an excuse to just flake out on us. There has never been a single moment in my life where I ever had an excuse to not take care of my kid. via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/3e5vrX2
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