How do other parents keep their relationship alive?

In between full time jobs, child care troubles, housework, and trying to sneak in 30 min a day for ourselves, our marriage has died. I don’t think he cares. With what little energy I had left, I took a nice hot bath and wore something nice. He comes to bed 2 hours later and doesn’t even look at me, just plops over and turns his back to me... It’s not like I have infinite energy to make more and more efforts. That was it. That was my best. I didn’t interrupt his shows, I waited patiently so he could get his hobbies in. Every single night is a missed opportunity. I could have sex every night if I had a willing partner. This is not me. I’m a shell of myself now. Just an undesirable mother with a flabby belly. Not even my own husband is interested. via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/3esbuJU