Is this okay to do as a parent?

So here’s little back story. The father of my child and I have recently split up, and he’s been staying at my apartment during this transition. Since the circumstances have been uncomfortable and caused bickering it’s reasonable for him to move out. Eventually we come to an agreement that he will move out in 30 days. THREE DAYS AGO he tells me he’s moving 2 states away so he can be in a place that makes him happy. He said he won’t be an absent father and that he needs to take care of himself before he can help raise our daughter. I honestly don’t even know what to think of this situation. I feel like the rug has just been pulled out from underneath my feet…Side note: my child is 10 months via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/36Igo0Q