My ex insists on letting our daughter go to school despite covid.

I don't know what to do here and I feel stuck in a massive crossroads, my ex insists on allowing our young daughter to go back to school despite the current shitshow that is happening in the world. I myself am immunocompromised, my wife has very bad asthma, and the person we live with has already died once with year because their body doesn't process disease such as a normal person can. I have tried discussing the option of virtual schooling with her and she wouldn't budge, stating that she couldnt go to work and also watch her to make sure shes doing her schooling. In rebuttal to this I offered to take her full time and let her do her schooling at my house because as a collective our household is all work from home so we would always all be around to assist at any turn. Yet again she didn't budge. She insists that our daughter "misses her friends" and "wants to go back to school" and she is completely delusional, stating that she thinks that school would be good for her because it would bring some normalcy back into our daughters life. I told her that if she goes through with this plan as gut wrenching it is and severely unfair to me as a parent, I wouldn't be able to see her on the weekends such as normally agreed upon because I couldn't run the risk of losing my life, my wife, or my roommate. Upon first glance she agreed to this and said she can take care of it and figure it out and that I'll get her two weeks after school is let out and keep her for the summer so that I could spend time with her. Which I was fine with. Well, now she is frantically messaging me and harassing me stating that shes worried about the babysitting situation for our daughter and that I need to just grow up and deal with it. She said it doesn't matter who gets sick because I need to be there for my child but what isn't getting through her head is that I can not be there for my child for the duration of her life if I end up dead because of this sickness. What the fuck do I do? I feel so trapped... via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/3kP3Hae